just tell him enough is enough he has to pick u or herI need some relationship advice...?
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I believe he's giving you false hope. Maybe not on purpose but you are his safety net to go to and run to when things are not well with him and his ex gf. it's easy said then done to tell him that u can't do it anymore but you have to get it into ur head that u can have better. Sometimes things just don't work out. Cut ur loses and move on.
I am in the same situation right now... I like him a lot and he says he likes me, but he wants to get back w/ his ex. and it breaks my heart.
Hunny, take my advice and try to get over him. I am in the process of that. hang out w/ him less often and limit your time w/ him in general. Go out w/ the girls and check out other guys maybe get their numbers. Do anything to get your mind off of him. It helps to hook up w/ other guys...
There's a pattern with him running back and forth between you and this other girl. You need to decide what it is that you want and don't want. Once you know, you need to stick with your decision and take care of number one.
Well, have you ever heard of the quote...
';Dont make someone a priority when your not even thier option?';
It applys for you, your a pretty good friend, but you should definetly stop hooking up with this guy. He seems like hes just using you as a rebound whenever things arent working out between the girl he really wants to be with you. To be blunt, if he really wanted to be with you, nothing could make him leave you or hurt you. Stays friends if you can, but I'd definetly let him know there is no choice and your out the game!
Good Luck :o)
He's using you for the inbetween times! He's not getting any from her while they've broken up so he comes to you, knowing full well that you'll be more than happy to fill the gap. Don't make yourself so available, set some boundaries and make him respect them. If he won't respect them then he's not worth waiting for. Tell him its time to make a decision - you or her. If he chooses you that's great. But if he chooses her, stay away from him and respect his decision. Its not worth putting yourself through the whole 2nd woman thing. You'll only lose respect for yourself each time he goes back to her %26amp; you'll miss all the other great guys out there while you're waiting for him!
First off. he is using you as a scape goat. Its ok to be there for him as a friend. However if you look deeper into the situation, you have allowed him a lot of power over you. Whenever he feels that he can snatch you back he has that power to do so. It sounds like he is not stable enough mentally and emotionally to make up his mind. He is dragging you done right along with him. If you are not careful then you will be an emotional wreck. You know what to do, you are just making excuses not to do it. Does it feel better to feel good or bad?
Its not an easy situation to be in at all.......I should know because I had a boyfriend at one time that wasnt over his ex-girlfriend even though she cheated on him and treated him badly he still went running to her. Over and over again this happened until one day he just plain up and dumped me and told me it wasnt my fault it was him.......I walked away for good that day...... I wasnt willing to give him another chance to hurt me anymore.
You see I deserved better than some guy who couldnt let his ex-girlfriend go and couldnt get over her no matter what she did to him......like wise you too deserve better than to sit around and wait on a guy that obviously isnt ready to grow up and see this girlfriend of his for what she is........if he wants to go running back to her time and time again then let him, but dont you get pulled down with him honey...... you are worth more and deserve soooooo much better than what you are getting right now.
You tell him you are done hurting, done with false hope, and done standing by and watching him play the part of a fool to his ex-girlfriend and if that is what he wants thats fine, but you arent willing to sacrifice yourself or your feelings anymore....that you are tired of hurting and are moving on. It will be the best thing for you in the long run......believe me I know if i had kept waiting on the guy i was with I would still be waiting and miserable.
God has a man for you and will one day put him in your life.....one that will not give you false hope, one that will love you and respect you the way you truely do deserve to be......You should never settle for anything less because you are a treasure in the Lord's eyes and deserve happiness and love.
Just remember this..... its this guys loss not yours.........its him who has given up being with a great person.........I for one think you are far better without him because all he can give you is heartache and lies.
Stay strong and know that you are special and a rare jewel among jewels in God's eyes and that He loves you and will give you what you seek in a man that knows how to treat a woman. Take care and good luck to you.
just tell him that u like him, and u kno that the other chick is his first love and all but i just dont think shes right for u cuz of the way shes always breaking up with u then she wants to get back together with u, to me it just seems like shes using u as a rebound.
i would be at ur place, i gona kick him away.
Dont care abt any person , who doesnt care abt u
Might be he just playing wid u
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