Relationship advice - head or heart?

I recently met a man with whom I get on really well, a little bit of love at first sight. We're both in our early 20's and we haven't known each other for long at all, but he confessed that he had feelings for me.





Problem is he has 2 very young children, and is married (but separated from his wife though still living with her). Confessing feelings for one another is as far as things have gone, but I just wanted a little advice before allowing things to go any further.





Basically it's head or heart: Head says stay away he's married and needs to work on building his marriage and family, heart says I haven't met someone I get on with so well in a long time. What do I do?Relationship advice - head or heart?
Hi,





Ultimately, it's down to what the pair of you want and what each of your expectations are. If both of you are down to earth, genuine to the bone, but ultimately, truthful to yourselves, it is possible that there is scope for a new development.





You need to sit down properly, chat and draw out some sort of action plan. Yes, it seems a little business-like and firm, but, you need a firm approach to seriously get things off the ground. The ramifications may hold you both back, which is why, it's got to take 'two to both tango'.





I think the key factors I'm looking at that need addressing to make this work in the long run is ;





1) Including the kids in your plans - that means being fourthright with them because it is just as much of a life-changing experience for them as it is for you.





2) Being upfront with the 'ex' - this can get messy and out of hand sometime when relations aren't as civil and amicable





3) Direction! This means accomodation;





Where will you both live?


Can you both afford to get a new place together?


Kiddies education arrangements?





Ultimately, if you both genuinely love each other and want to make this work, then go for it!!





Where there's a will, there's a way!!





Cheers


Red 7Relationship advice - head or heart?
if this guy is really into you,he should divorce his wife and you two should get serious otherwise he is going to waste your time and probably get back to his wife.
head for now. dont get involved till hes moved out trust me





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