Friday, April 30, 2010

Relationship Advice Please Help!!!!?

Okay, so there is this guy who likes me, He isn't the good looking but i wouldnt say he is the ugliest guy out there, but he is really nice sometimes a little too nice. He isn't the kind of guy I envisioned myself spending the rest of my life with. He is 5'7'; and Im 5'5';, so he is kind of short. I always thought I would date a guy older than me but this guy is almost a year younger. My friends all think I should give him a chance, but I'm not sure. He has been text messaging me for a few days now and asking me if I want to hangout but I make up excuses to not go, because I'm scared of what my family will think of him. he would be my first boyfriend, He just turned 19 and Im about to be 20 so there is a small age difference. I dont want to hurt him, but im not sure what I want. Help me pleaseRelationship Advice Please Help!!!!?
Forget about everyone else right now and focus on yourself and him. Now think do you really like him? Don't think about that dream man you had think about how you feel towards him. And forget all the negatives and focus on the positives there are probably more. And there is your answer. Good luck =]Relationship Advice Please Help!!!!?
Sometimes you don't day to find a life-long partner, sometimes you date just to date. So if he isn't what you envisioned spending your life with, that's probably okay.





You gave a lot of stats about the guy and seem to be worried what other people think. The most important question is - Do you like him? If you do, give him a chance. If you don't, then be upfront with him and let him know so you won't hurt him more later.
Figure yourself out first. If you don't know what your family thinks of him you'll never know until they meet him and if he doesn't you'll always wonder what if. Age could be an issue but that's only if you make it one. He's obviously into, but your excuses might make him think your blowing him off. He might move on when you realize you want him. Take the chance if things don't work out. you at least tried.

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