Relationship Advice?

Hey guys. I need advice. Im in a 2 year relationship the guy is 23 and im 20. He is my first and only boyfriend I have ever had for moral reasons. I love the guy more than life. The thing is I havent met his family and we talk about marriage all the time I want to settle down early Im on track I have my education going great. But he always makes an excuse about me NOT meeting his parents. Its a big deal to me. I feel like he isnt serious about me for this reason. I help and support him thru everything. Ive taken his college classes for him i try to help him in every way possible. Right now Im thinking of breaking up with him I dont want him to keep using me like Im worried. I know he is in love with me but then apart of me says he just ';What if'; he doesnt love me the way I love him. I know 2 years is a really long time but im dead confused. Ive tried talking to him about it but it seems to me it just doesnt get thru to him. What do i do?Relationship Advice?
I have to agree with you. There is a reason he hasn't introduced you to his parents. I don't know if it is you or his parents but for some reason he doesn't want the two of you to meet.





I don't think he feels the same way about you as you do about him. I am not saying he doesn't love you, I just don't know how strong that love is. It may not be strong enough for marriage.





I don't know if he is using you or not but that's something no one has to point out to you. Inside, you know if you feel used. If you do, then I would break up with him no matter how painful it might be. It would seem to me that he was into playing games and not really that serious about your relationship.





If you feel used, you will start to resent him and any love you might have for him with diminish.





My advice would be to tell him in no uncertain turns that you want to met his parents, if he hesitates one more time, I would call it quits. At that point it would be obvious that he isn't as serious about this relationship as you are.Relationship Advice?
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If he's serous, yes you should be able to meet his family. But what else is he hiding from you. And honey, taking his classes for him? He's using you. You are taking the place of his mother. Stop that. You don't need to be taken advantage of, and if you are doing that for him, it makes be believe you are likely doing other things to help him and make things easier for him in the name of keeping a relationship going and to make him believe you love him.





Trust me, I'm in this relationship, I'm 45 and have 3 children, 2 adult sons and a 14 year old. Unless you are really comfortable leading the rest of your lives mothering him and doing everything for him while he walks all over you, you need to re-define this relationship.





I'd feel like there were other things he is embarassed about or hiding from you if he won't let you meet his family. Call them and arrange a meeting yourself. Don't take him if he's worried about it. But tell him you are doing that, after you have set up the meeting. I say this because I feel like something else is amiss and by you making that phone call you may find out.