Relationship advice from girls?

My girlfriend used to be very outgoing and would call me, text me all the time. The other day we hung out and her family would not stop texting and calling her, and wouldn't let us enjoy our date. Now she hardly calls me or texts me at all, and I'm always after her, telling her I like her and I think about her all the time you see what I'm saying? Last week she got drunk and called me early and said she loved me and then she said she didn't remember. Her brothers hates me, as with all her past boyfriends and I need some advice? Yes I like her alot but could eventually her family end up ruining it for us? We have been dating for couple months. Or next time she doesn't text or call me I should let her text me by herself? I don't know, I need a girls opinion. No rude answers please, as I've seen alot of those.Relationship advice from girls?
I don't know if her family could ruin it for you but she sure could do it herself pretty effectively.


I can't speak for every woman, but I sure as hell don't need dating advice from my family members, excepting I guess if the guy was a total abusive jerk or something which it doesn't sound as if you are.


So, if she isn't texting you or calling you, it almost sounds like she might not like you as much as you like her. Don't always be after her telling you how much you think about her if she isn't reciprocating because girls do not generally think that is cool. It makes you seem desperate if she isn't doing it back.


In my opinion it doesn't sound as into you as you are into her though... sorry for the bad news.


In the end, go with your instincts.


Hope things are looking up soon for you~Relationship advice from girls?
You should spend time with her family and get to know them. They would eventually realize you aren't a bad guy.


As well, people tend to tell the truth when they are drunk. Not remembering things like phone calls is very common when people get drunk enough.


As for her brother, he loves his sister and wants to protect her. Once he gets to know and trust you, he should be cool.
Yeah I know what your saying, she is just caught in the middle. she probably does like you but she is getting pressured from family and stuff. Unfortunelty most girls do pick family over boyfriends. I would leave her alone, let her come around. and I doubt very seriously that she doesnt remember after getting drunk. Its amazing how people only remember what they wanna remember. huh. I wouldnt waste one more second on that drama. You'll find someone else.
I had to brake up with my BF because of his family who did not let us have our space. I would say, tell her that you like her a lot and want to give this relationship a shot but if she does not let her family interfere with it. Once the family gets involved and they do not like you, you will lose the battle. I would say move on.
Not sure how old you are but could it be possible that she is either slightly scared off by you telling her your feelings? Or maybe her family is drilling it into her that its not going to work and you're only after one thing etc..





Try to talk to her about it, ask her if everything is ok at home and between you two.. It may just be that she is stressing out about something and needs some alone time..? Or she may be freaked out by her own feelings for you..?





Good luck! Hope this helps..
I would ask her how she feels about you (sober) and how much conflict shes willing to get into with her family over dating you, find out how dedicated she is just by face value, don't text her or call her when you ask you'll want to see her expression when she reacts, then you'll know if its genuine
In my honest opinion you need to let her go and if she comes back to you then it was meant to be. Sounds to me like she might have a side guy and or she just isn't ready to be in the relationship you want. :) Good Luck
it probably is her family...but why wouldn't they like you? maybe you can talk to her bro and give him a chance to get to know you...he might end up liking you and she will feel less guilty going out with you...but give her time..don't chase her%26gt;(text her every day)
I think you should try talking to her about it and see if there is a reason for it and if she is going to act like that then you should break up with her.
talk to her about it.


seriously, i hate it when guys do that.


i know i may just be another answer person,


please talk to her about it.


you will thank me later.


trust me, i have been through a lot.
Talk to her and tell her how your feeling about the situation. Screw her family, do what you think is right for your relationship with her. If you love her, you'll figure out what needs to be done.
Her family probably interefered with her in some way, because they probably don't like you [srry to say]. And the fact the her fam is being such a pain is messing her up. se what's up.
um try talking to her about it.


i think her family possibly doesnt


want her seeing you, thats why


shes acting that way. if she


still keeps this behavior up,


dump her?





good luck :)
i suggest making her jealous it will drive her crazy and she will see what she is missing





or you could do the mature thing and talk to her about it, but i like the first idea better
Romeo and Juliet had that problem. Maybe you can find a better solution.
She just probably does not want to upset her family. When she called u when she was drunk she probably was saying what her heart really feels.
dude...


give her sometime to get up %26amp; stand for her relationship... do not pressurise her with anythn...


stressing her can ruin evrythng...


let her be...


she'l come back.. jus keep ur arms open... %26amp; mind cool..!!


all the best.. tc..!!
yes, call her and find out.
I'd say find another girl... sorry but life is too short to put up with that crap
Her family probably was texting her and influencing her feelings for you. She's probably confused right now. I would try to meet with her face to face and talk it out. If that doesn't work, I would try the ';let her approach me first'; thing for maybe a week. After that, you need to be up front with her and say ';hey, it doesn't seem like you are putting as much effort into this relationship as I am. I don't know what your family said, but obviously its enough for you to not love me after all.';





I've had the ';family influence'; thing happen to me and it broke my heart.
I am not going to give a rude answer. But I am going to be completely honest...kay?





Here goes...


What is seems to me is that her family is putting a lot of pressure on her. They could be seieng that she really likes you, and they fear that the relationship is going to get in the way of her studies, and that she will stop focusing on other things in life. They could also think she is too young to have a serious relationship, and could want her to 'come back down to Earth'. However, if you honestly do like her, you have to give her space to figure out what she wants to do. She already knows what her family wants, she knows what you want, she has to figure out what she wants. And while she is doing this, you cannot call or text her. It will give her space, and if you are constantly calling and texting her it will bother her...she will be thinking ';my god, can't he just give me a little breathing room!!!';





When you don't give her attention, especially since she is the one who has become distant, it will let her realize that she is about to lose you. And that is when the epiphany will come about whether or not to choose you or abide by her family's wishes. At the moment, everytime she acts distant it's because she doesn't want to fall into something serious when she thinks that her family will never let her. However, all families can be persuaded eventually, she just needs the time to see if this particular relationship is worth the efforts of persuading.
what i would do that i think would gain alot of respect from her parents is sit down and talk to them and reasure them of your character as a man and as their daughters date .....just say things such as i do love her and i will try my best to make her happy im a (even if your not) nice calm good guy i guess and i think of myself having a good head on my shouolders and wouldnt do anything to make her upset or uncomfortable....and tell her that you had a talk with her parents to reasure them that shes safe with you.......just try to be as nice and charming as possible......hope i helped...
probably her family is getting in the way


but you still can't be all like well i like you alot and stuff


if she doesn't show it to if you see the she's kind of pushing away


pretend that you don't really care your a man it shouldn't hurt you


girl like go have fun stop worrying about her so much


if her brother does not like you thats not your fault


if she pulls away and decides to listen to her family


thats not your fault find a way to let her know you still like her alot but not telling her all the time and making it seem like your so hung up on her if she doesn't act the same with you


if you txt her wait for her to txt you back or call you back


don't txt her a million times saying why aren't you txtn and stuff like that


well good luck hope everything works out well



Well at the end of the day any persons loyalty is going to lie with the family, that's just how it goes... I think maybe her family has got into her ear about you, and told her how they feel about you, and it doesn't sounds like they've been saying anything good, it seems as if she's just not that into you anymore, and maybe just can't find the words to tell you, her family is obviously a massive factor in her choices.





I always say ';drunken words are sober thoughts'; most of the time when you say something when ur drunk it's usually something you can't say sober, SOMETIMES....





I think that she does ';love'; you, but not like a girlfriend should love her boyfriend, i think maybe she loves you as a friend but not as a boyfriend.





If her family doesn't like you, it's only gonna make things harder and in the end its just going to tear you apart..





I think you should just cut ur losses, i know you really like her and everything, but i think you deserve to be with someone who really does care, and who is going to be there for you, and the girl ur with now, just isn't that person..





i think its time to move on from her, and find someone who's going to love you no matter what..





Good Luck.



Hey. Try to calm down for a while.





Maybe she's having a tough time in her ';family quality time';. I'm not sure either because I don't really... know her for real but maybe she needs some alone time.





Or maybe, trying texting her yourself. But, don't really bother her about it. Give her some personal space, ya know?





Or if she isnt that type of person -as in, she likes having attention (not in a bad way) just ask her about it.





But, if I was in a situation like that, I wouldn't like it if my boyfriend kepting bothering me about it. It just gets... bothersome. So, give her some personal space...





And don't worry about it.. It'll be okay... ;D
i'm in the SAME situation. the guy i dated for 14 months (his parents did NOT like me and him together and all our friends didn't like us together).. so eventually we broke up..





4 months down the road, after not a word of talking, we started talking again, and we still love each other, it's just hard cuz we have to keep EVERYTHING a secret from everyone we care about.. so we meet up and hang out occasionally like every other week or so, but eventuallly if things get to be serious, and we decide we want to be together, we're going to have to take a stand for what we believe it





we're going to have to tell our parents how we really feel about each other and tell them ';this is who i want to be with'; and if they're understanding, they'll accept it cuz it makes their son happy (or in this case, your gf).





so what 'im suggesting is jus go with the flow about things and see how it all goes, but if it gets worse or to the point where you cant stand it anymore, tell her if she really loves and cares about you, then she'll make a stand for your love.





good luck!

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