Relationship Advice: please please help...?

- I just got out of a 2 year emotionally and physically abusive relationship with ';Henry';.


- In the beginning of our relationship ';Henry'; made me stop contact with ';Derick'; my best guy friend.


- Halfway into me and ';Henry's'; relationship ';Derick'; contacted me and we talked on the computer for a year, without ';Henry's'; knowledge.


-2 months ago, when I broke up with ';Henry'; I almost immediatly started a relationship with ';Derick.'; He stayed by me for a year, just being there for me, and I knew if I never got a chance to be with him, I knew I missed somthing in life.


-Now, I'm with ';Derrick'; and in the process of letting my parents know.


-Well, this past weekend, I got drunk with 2 girlfriends and one of the guys from work stayed over and I slept with him (cuddled) doing nothing with him except that. But if feel like **** for doing that.


-I don't know how to tell Derrick, the love of my life, that I slept with another guy.


Should I even?


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DEAR: WHOEVER THIS CONCERNS


the key of a happy relationship is HONESTY~!! sure, it might be painful to both of you, but you must tell him~! it might hurt him inside a little, but you will be relieved to tell him. IT MIGHT EVEN strengthen your bond with him.Relationship Advice: please please help...?
definitely doesn't sound like the right thing to do, but the best part is you know your mistake..


The right thing would be to tell Derick the truth and confess... it is difficult, but the right thing to do..


You cant build your life, on the foundation of lies!


and also be more careful in the future..
don't tell him nothing and quit getting drunk with your girl friends