Recently i have changed my whole group of friends from popular people to what many people would call geeks. They are a lot nicer to be around and i feel like i can be myself whilst with them but my problem is that i have kind of fell for one of them. He knows i like him and we are very close friends and i have now found out he is a Jehovah witness and he admitted to me that because of this he cant go with anyone outside his religion. I really don't know what to do as my whole family is catholic and do not agree with his religion in the slightest. The thing is i do not want to loose him as a friend but the way i feel about him is killing me and i cant tell nobody why i cant get with him they all say use always flirt he likes you we know he does but even if he does well we cant be together how can i get over him without blocking him out my life ?RELATIONSHIP ADVICE .. RELIGION STOPS HIM BEING WITH ANYONE ?
Hi, I have the same religion, and I know it can be hard sometimes in this situation (for the girl and the guy), but we do have our beliefs and its a more important issue than he might show or others might think. And I'm sure you mean well, and the whole thing might be stupid or confusing to you, but I would just say that its one of those things, and we all have to have to respect eachothers beliefs and ways of doing things.
The only advice I can give you is to leave it alone. I know its going to be hard. But there are plenty of guys out there. I've been there, and there's not much you can do about it. You can continue to be friends with him. Ask him some questions if you're confused about it (or about our religion in general) We're not as freaky as most people think, lol. Hope I helped.RELATIONSHIP ADVICE .. RELIGION STOPS HIM BEING WITH ANYONE ?
By the cruel trip into the real world. If this young man is a believer that is firm within his religion, the cruel real world says, you need to grow up and face reality. You will have more and more in your life that is not going to be fair, that is going to be hard, that is going to make ruff and tuff decisions...and that is called survival. Therefore, I see from this real part of the world that you are in, you have three choices. One, to walk away and never speak to him again. Two, demean his religious background by trying to be a Jezebel and try to turn him against his God, or be a true real friend, one that will grow and mature and make you into a better ,wiser, smarter, kinder, loving person. I think I know which one you will choose. You don't sound as if you are a troubled child who does not have common sense and you don't sound as if you are one to jump off the bridge just because someone said too. I believe that you have your own individual mind...
Friday, April 30, 2010
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