Relationship advice?

After four and a half years of being with my boyfriend, last week, I told him I thought we needed a break for awhile. As soon as I said it, i had a gut feeling that it wasn't the right choice. I havent been able to stop crying over it, and I miss him like crazy. I sat and talked to him last night, and he said he still wants to wait a few weeks before we try and see if we can work things out, and I don't know if I can handle it. I have never felt this way before. I don't know wht to do without him, I don't know how to prove ot him that I am sorry and that I didn't mean it. Any advice? I have lost a week of sleep, 15 pounds from stress, and i can't get my body to stop shaking. I feel like crap....Relationship advice?
Sweetheart. You need to take it one day at a time. You will end up in the hospital for all this. Your weight going down. Lack of sleep. Just give me a few days to think about what he wants to do. If, he doesn't want to get back with you. Then, you are going to have to live with it. It will be one day that he will see what he had is what he should of stuck with in the first place. If, you seem happy and you really want to make this work then you should show him. Give him time. I know it might seem like forever to you now. Believe me it's the right thing. Don't rush him.Relationship advice?
You got the ball rolling, sometimes we need to think before we act because we often regret what we do when we don't.





Give him some time to get over being upset, and keep reminding him that you made a terrible mistake and that you love him.





just because you changed your mind does not mean that at this point the choice is not his, it is and you just have to tough it out.
there must be at least a reason why u bnng that up to him. meanwhile he is right, give both of u a breather and remember to take this relationship from a long term point of view. it takes alot of commitment to maintain a relationship. relax. will pray for u.
Well this is where we think before we speak.. but think of the positive..you have lost 15 pounds. . and he only said that he wanted to wait a few weeks before you tried to work things out.. maybe he is trying to make a point to you.. Think about your reasons that you wanted to take a break , they may have been good reasons. and if it takes a few weeks to make up his mind if he wants to make it work. then you were most likely right to take the break because there was something wrong with your relationship that really needs to be talked about.. quit crying and stressing.. and think about what was wrong to make you ask for this break there had to be a good reason that you wanted it enough to speak. up. get him to sit down and talk to you.. and discuss what you thought was wrong and take care of it by talking. he may have been feeling the same way is why he is taking so much time to come back. hurt feelings here could also be a problem..


tell him how you really feel about him and find out how he feels. after talking you will either get back together or may want to move on. After investing 4 1/2 years with someone there is always a feeling that you may have been wrong and the thought of moving on is very scary.. having to learn about someone new all over again.. but you will survive.. and if the two of you really love each other you will find a way to make it work.. but think about your reasons from the begining here. there was something that made you ask for this break. calm down you are just making your self sick.. everything will work out for the best.
i can see that u made a mistake but u cant turn back the time......its good that u talked with ur bf about the problem that u made by ur own.....from nice long-term relationship u made a real problem......but now u gotta try to solve it.......loosing pounds, shaking and insomnia are the best signs that u r in love.......i think that its the best for u to wait those weeks to pass coz u hurted his libido......and maybe he is confused.....so u can call him sometimes......u can send him a mex but dont be boring, guys dont like that!


and u will see the problem will be gone.....just wait a bit.....he, just as u did, realise that he really miss u.....





wish u luck! and in future think deeply before u say!
Your gut will always lead you in the right direction.





He is hurt from this, you have to give him the time to heal from this, there is nothing u can say to take away the hurt.
That's amore! Looks like you made a mistake with this one. Never give up too much line when the fish is on the hook.
2 bgin w/, it was ur idea 2 have a cool off.. he's hurt! asking 4 some space indirectly means dat ur no longer feeling d same way abt him, w/c makes him wonder if he still has d same feelings 4u..





give him more tym..





he'll come back if ur love's meant 2b
dear


the problem in life is that there are no clear cut solutions.this is not your problem .this in fact is everyone's problem. we feel uneasy if things go this way .and we feel uneasy if things go that way.any way the information in your question is too little for me to advice you anything on future course. let me know more about it .my email id is ravindra_juyal007@yahoo.com.you can also contact me at 0 9219280548 . believe me i may be able to help.


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I think that it is good you took a break from him. First of all, there must have been a reason why you thought you needed time apart, and secondly, the reaction you are having now is not a healthy one. Just take a deep breath, and remember, the only reason you are reacting this way is because you fear losing him. But if you lose him after 4 1/2 years by taking a few weeks to have a breather, then he isn't the one for you, anyway.
Lesson well learned,Hopefully he loves you and is understanding enough to forgive this indiscretion on your part.Talk to him honestly,and if he really loves you you'll get through it.