My girlfriend and I broke up about a week ago. It was somewhat mutual but mostly on her part. She had been acting differently for a while, such as ignoring me in public, and hardly making eye contact. When we broke up, we agreed to be friends and if something happened down the road then we would see what happens. We are still good friends. We both went to the same party last night, and she ended up wanting to spend the night at my place. (p.s. we r in college) she initiated wanting to do physical stuff as well. We talked a lot the next morning. we were both pretty confused. she said that she is very attracted to me physically, but not sure if there is anything there relationship wise.
we agreed today to just be friends and see if she felt any differently down the line. i am now wondering what is going on. i don't know if she was implying a friends with benefits scenario...but i kind of doubt it. i want to continue seeing her in the physical aspect. any suggestions.Please Read! Relationship advice?
i think she wants to be friends with benefitsPlease Read! Relationship advice?
Well talk about it. See if you can be friends and still have sex. You never know. But if she says no than just be friends with her. You never know what is going to happen.
In my experience strictly physical relationships never work out, you dated this girl, you were in love with her and now you are going to try to just make it about sex, sorry it's not going to work, someone and my guess would be you rather than her is going to end up really hurt behind this when she falls in love with someone else and ends the physical relationship with you, best advice, break it off completely and go find someone who wants to be in the same type of relationship that you want to be in.
i think she just wanted to be with cuz of ur looks and physical apperances, talk to her as a friend and tell her wether u feel confortable when she touches u like that, she was never ur girl friend, she was just using u for ur looks, true love is not that so just be friends...
make it friends with benefits, it just might keep her coming back for more than physical.
Let me tell you something! She is playing you for a fool. You should move on, and find someone new.Down the road is just a way of beating around the busch.I know that is hard to hear but is so very true.
Sounds like she is comfortable with you but is not really attracted to you. Sorry.
Well if you just want to see her in the physical aspect it sounds like that麓s pretty much what you are going to get from her... i guess you need to see what her feelings are towards you because you don麓t want to hurt her or to spoil what can be a good relationship.
Check on your feelings too and stop sleeping with her just because you or her are drunk...
I think maybe she broke up because she knew it woudln't work out long term as in marrage........ but once she made the decision to break it off... she's missing having the relationship... and she's in rebound time righ tnow... she might try to go back and forth and yoyo...but for you.. it might be best to push her away right now... you'll probably only have a physical relationship from here on out... sounds like that's the only thing left to do.. if there's nothing there... sorry to say it but you wanted to hear the truth... =(
Sounds like she's bunking with you when nothing better, uh, comes up. If that's ok with you, then by all means go for it. In the meantime, keep your eyes out for a woman who wants a more committed relationship.
just go with the flow...maybe u will get back together
Not to sound like a h*e, but there's nothing wrong with friends with benefits. If you're both physically attracted to each other, and you know what's going on, then I say go for it. But be careful, because if you have deeper feelings for her, it could lead to you getting hurt. Other than that, don't worry about it. Start seeing other females, explore your options and see where that takes you
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
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