Relationship advice needed badly!?

I have fallen for this guy who has a girlfriend...





This guy does flirt with me and encourages me. He doesn't seem to stop my advances, it is only playful banter but he hasn't told me that it makes him feel uncomfortable.





I looked after him when he was extremely drunk once and I was joking around about how he owes me. He started asking me what I want, so I asked him if he could come round for a night and he said yes.





He says that he is feeling unsure but I assured him that if he didn't want to he doesn't have to and all he says is ';I owe you';.





I have told him that I liked him and he hasn't said anything promising. I am positive there is something there, I am smart enough to work that one out but I don't think he would leave his girlfriend for me...


And of course I wouldn't encourage him to and I don't fancy being the bit on the side.


He is stubborn and quite ';closed up';. Typical virgo.





So...what should I do?


Move on or push harder?Relationship advice needed badly!?
Move on....b/c if your feelings get stronger for him, you'll keep messing with him, becoming his 'side piece' or 'jumpoff' and you'll be the one hurt in the end....I agree, I don't think he'll leave her for you and think about it, he would do the same thing to you.





You're better than that.





best wishes.Relationship advice needed badly!?
Move on, him flirting with you or not discouraging your flirting just shows he is capable of indiscretion. The likely hood that he would do that to you is higher. If he breaks up with this girlfriend down the road, on his own and things spark up between you then make a decision. Perhaps you want what you can't have. I'd move on for now save yourself the stress.
move on!! don't play that game, it makes girls look bad. he's pretty much being unfaithful to his girlfriend by acting that way towards you. if you two get together, he'll just do the same thing to you and you'll never be able to trust him.





if they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you. life lesson right there. fact.
to be honest move on as he could more than likely find companionship and fun in you as he may be bored with his relationship, but would you like it done to you? he is spoken for, why not wait til he is single again? the chase is fun once you have caught them, its not, what sign are you? why not check out your compatibility?
Move on. If you think he is not going to leave his girlfriend for you and he hasnt said anything promisin then honey you are nothing but a fling on the side. You really want to pursue a man who is unfaithful? if he messes with you he is cheating on her. RED FLAG! sweetie he is a dog.
If he leaves his g/f for you, could you ever trust him to not leave you for somebody else? What goes around comes around. You should leave well alone, his g/f will see sense eventually and wise up to what a d1ck he is.
push harder





You come across as someone who craves unnecessary drama in their lives.
MOVE ON!! he's taken, and even if he did leave his girl for you, or have you ';on the side,'; you dont' want a guy who would do that to a girl.
Move on, even if he does leave her for you, he will eventually leave you for another.
You should go on one date with him and see how you feel...also you must see how he feels about you....Dont tryto rush it
Move on.


If he does leave or cheat on her for you then what does that say for your future?
He has a girlfriend. so go and find a single one.
move on
i think you should move on love if it was meant to be it would b
Ok, I don't know whether he is going to dump his girlfriend for you but then if he wasn't interested in you then why would he do all that stuff? Some people get bored of the person that they're with, that might be the reason why he is thinking of spending some time with you, to see whether dumping his girlfriend and you being his is worth it. Some relationships end because there in no excitement in the relationship...That's how my one ended anyway. Move on or push harder? Erm...wait..maybe? You never know. Give it some time, see what happens when he comes round. Maybe he just wants to be your friend. But if the hints keep coming round and he is still with his girlfriend then I think you should be straight up with it. Ask him whether he likes you or not, because he is sending you mixed messages. What's the worst that can happen? Boys can be so confusing sometimes. Just give it like a month or something. A lot can happen in a month. Good luck.
Dudes love attention, either from a his own girlfriend or one of his female companions. I'm kinda the same way sometimes, and no straight guy in his right mind would turn you away (unless they were married) but it is kind of rude to wreck someones previous relationship in order to satisfy personal gain. Besides there might not be as much going on up there as you think. I say move on, you seem like a smart person who could definitely find someone who will love and care about you. Just put this guy into the friend zone and keep him there. (unless they break up of course, then GO FOR IT!)
How about you leave him alone? He has a gf so what you want him to cheat on her with you? What kind of person would that make him and you be? Don't be that person! He knows you like him and there is nothing wrong with having a crush on a taken guy but you need to leave him alone since he has a gf! If something did happen he ether (A) would not leave his gf or (B) would and then would cheat on you! Please don't be the girl who tries to force her way into someone elses relationship and leaveh him ALONE!