Relationship advice pleaseee.?

so,


i recently just started talking to my ex a few months ago and now were both starting to like each other that way again.


he came over a few days ago and we made out and stuff.


and i talked to him about ever getting back together and he said hes just not sure.


and i was feeling that way too.


till recently cause i cant get him outta my mind.


i asked him like 3246876 times if it was cause i needed to fix something i wasnt doing right and he said its not me hes just not sure if he wants to be with a girl right now cause hes going through alot of stress right now and doesnt know if a relationship is what he wants.


and he wants to be with me, but hes just not 100% sure.


its just all really confusing cause he says he loves me and he says he likes me, but hes just not sure.


and its been killing me lately.


and i have no idea how to go about this.


so...how do i get him to be 100% sure of me?


what can i do.


please i need help.


im starting to fall for him again and i dont wanna get hurt.

















***best answer 10 pts***Relationship advice pleaseee.?
first of all honey why did u guys break up? remember that first. then ask urself if this is what u really want. well the guy told u what he wants so leave him alone. don't make such an effort to talk to him or see him. see how far he will go for u. if he gives up easily then honey it wasn't meant to be. but if he comes back to u then maybe there is a good chance. Relationship advice pleaseee.?
you guys broke up before and trying to rekindle the relationship. Now if you call him 3246876 times, he's not going to like it. It's a turn off. You have already expressed your interest, wait for him to do so too. Till then take it slow.
I would say you should definitely LISTEN to what he is saying and make sure you HEAR what he is telling you, because if you just listen but don't really digest the fact that he is not ready to be in a committed relationship with you, then you will end up hurt.





In addition to that, I think you should discontinue getting involved with him physically until he is one hundred percent sure that he wants to be in a relationship with you. It goes without saying that two people can continue to be physical with one another, and while one is thinking the physical chemistry means a relationship is on the horizon, the other is thinking the complete opposite. I think sometimes we as woman are quick to equate a physical relationship with the potential for something serious, and it sounds like that is what you are doing here. My advice to you is to stay clear of any physical contact with him as much as possible and try to limit the overall amount of time you spend with him be it on the phone or in person.


The last thing you want is to be involved with someone who is ';confused'; about what they want to do in terms a relationship with you. If he ended things with you, then it should be clear that he is capable of becoming and getting clear about what he wants and does not want in his life. DO NOT wait around for him to decide if and/or when he wants to resume a relationship with you. You could be waiting around forever on that one, and in the meantime miss out on the chance to live your life, meet new people, and be happy.





I say you two were together and broke up for a reason, so it's best to close that chapter as painful as it may be and move on. If you are willing to put yourself through all this for someone who has to decide if and when they are ready to be with you, imagine how much better you will feel to be with someone who GENUINELY KNOWS that he WANTS to be with you. There is no greater feeling.





Good luck.
the worst thing you can do is try to GET someone to be 100% sure of you, he eighter is, or he isn't, it's black and white, and right now he says he isn't, i think you should be greatfull that he realizes this Before making a commitment, you guys are exs for a reason, and it's natural to be attracted to the good times, and when you're feeling it, its easy to forget the bad times, but i think you should take it slow, and try not to get too attached, think about why it ended, and are you both mature enough and have you grown emotionally as individuals to give it another go? good luck!!!