I have been dating this girl for about a year and a half (girl A). She says she is in love and that she wants nothing more than to marry me and be there for the rest of my life. I am just turning 19 so I don't really feel the same way. Anyway before I was gonna even date her I really fell for this other girl though (Girl B). I found out that girl B didn't feel the same way for me so I went with girl A. Well Now I have been talking to girl B again and I am starting to get those feelings back. Also she is striving more to learn the things I do than girl A is. I cannot tell if she feels the same way for me. She seems to hint at it but that could just be me. She is however trying to date this other guy which happens to be one of my close friends. I was thinking maybe she does have feeling but since I am with girl A and girl B knows about girl A's plans of marriage that she just assumes that I will not give it a try. I don't wanna ruin my friendship with girl B but I really like her so...?Relationship Advice!?
You shouldn't have gone out with girl A as an alternative to girl B. That's really unfair to her. And I think it's quite apparent that your heart's not really with girl A. Since she's going to get hurt anyway, maybe you could just ask girl B if she likes you. That way, you will satisfy your curiosity and won't have any regrets. (But if she really does like you, she wouldn't be dating another guy.) Any way, I think you should stop dating girl A. Unless you're sure that you really like her.Relationship Advice!?
I know EXACTLY how you feel. You want a ';fall back.'; You are not a horrible person, you are human, but you need to do the right thing. Break it off with Girl A. If it ain't there, it ain't there. Tell Girl B the way you feel. If she feels the same, great, if not, let the search for C begin. Report Abuse
Friday, January 8, 2010
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