Relationship advice help!!?

Ive been with my girlfriend for 5 years now and recently our petty arguments have taken its toll. Ive given her a lack of trust for a couple of years which was totally wrong of me but I have finally admitted it yesterday. She told me because of my jealousy and the arguments she loves me in a different way but she is willing for us to see how things go and myself Iam stopping all this jealousy and totally promised myself that I will not stat anymore arguments with her.





When I met her I worked in the hotel entertainment trade in a hotel. I was slimmer,had more confidence and was a much better person. The hotel closed down 2 years ago and inbetween that time ive stayed at home and hardly worked but the hotel is due to reopen this weekend and I do have my old job back. Ive told her that I will begin to lose my weight again(i have put so much on in 2 yrs) and with that my confidence will return and I wont feel as insecure again and i will be the person that she met 5 years ago.


Is it possible that our old love will return and she will love me the way she did a while back now ive fully admitted what a jealous pig ive been in 2 years and now that im back in the working circle I know the old me will return?Relationship advice help!!?
it's very possible that things could get back to normal once you start your job again(with the economy the way it is, i've been laid off a couple times, and that can really screw with your self-esteem, so i usually act the same way, but once i start work again, it's so much better) one more thing, does she complain about your weight? unless you've gained like 200-300 pounds, she should accept you the way you are. my hubby has gained some weight since we got together (like 50 pounds or so) and i love just as much, if not more!!!Relationship advice help!!?
yes, but you cannot go back to your old jealous and insecure ways! also if anything ever happens in your life again, lie your hotel closes down and you loose your job again, or something, you cannot let yourself go like you did - and you will know what not to do from your experience. you got a great girls for sticking with you.
Only one way to find out id say - Wait and see what haopens with you after returning to work .