My boyfriend in the begging of our relationship was more affectionate. When we kissed it would be a special kiss and now he gives me only pecks. He is mormon and I am not, I don't if it is because of religious beliefs, because I heard you are not supposed to have long passionate kisses? Is that true. Also we are seven years apart and he calls me little girl and I think that is insulting and told him that. I wrote him a nice email completing him and he didn't seem to appreciate it. He is constantly asking me to meet with the elders of the church. He does pick me up every weekend and take me outt, but lately I sense he has been maybe a little more distant, maybe he is scared because of the whole differnce in our religion. What is your opinion on this relationship do you think he wants to be just friends? Do you have any suggestions on how I can polietly ask him if he is dating me just to try to convert me or if he really likes me for me.I need help with some relationship advice. Thank you very much!?
My advice is to walk away from this guy. If he is 7 years different in age, then that is enough right now to make a big difference. If he is calling you his little girl, that attitude will not go away.
You don't have to ask him what his intent is. He keeps asking you to meet with the elders so that you would convert to Mormonism.I need help with some relationship advice. Thank you very much!?
A good thing about Mormons is that they are very family oriented and generally moral people. The bad thing is that if you are a really good Mormon, you and him will get your own planet to be god over, where you will be eternally pregnant producing spirit babies to inhabit the world that you rule. This is true! Look it up. Right now, they believe that Jehovah is on planet Kolob doing that very thing.
Dating a Mormon is bad business unless you're interested in becoming a Mormon. If he's serious about his faith, his religious beliefs will hold dominant sway, and you will have to submit to them in order for him to ultimately accept you. Right now, he's most likely trying to get you converted so that he can have a legitimate relationship with you which will be approved by the church elders.
Depending on which strand of Mormonism he is, you may not be the only chicken in the hen house after a while either. Some of the more fundamentalist Mormons are still polygamists.
My personal advice to you is to get as far away from Mormonism as you possibly can. If that means that you have to end this relationship, it will be a small price to pay compared to the brainwashing you would sustain if you stay and convert.
He needs to find a good Mormon girl with whom he's already compatible, and you need to get away from that system before it sucks you in too.
Best of luck.
Friday, January 8, 2010
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