Relationship advice.?

Now, I'm the last person to be wanting advice, only but from my Psychiatrist. I want a simple woman out there to choose, not for me, but for a little push, in a relationship speed-bump. I would greatly appreciate it. Aside from my deep thoughts, I want simple for once.


A) a guy I knew since February of '09 in my 5 hour driving course, who can tell when I'm upset or content, who I feel the safest with, who has so much in common with me when it comes to blood and evil. We have sex every time we're together, and when I ask why he likes me, he answers ';You're cool.'; But when I ask him what his take is on a relationship with me, he answers, ';I don't want to rush into anything because all of my relationships have gone to **** in the past, and I don't want to have the same happen with you.';





B) a guy who I've known since May 17th, from MySpace, who can get inside of my head when I don't even want him to, who says he cares a lot about me, and knows how to treat a woman. He has a drinking, money and smoking problem that he's willing to change just for me. He lives 3 hours away, and is also willing to drop everything just to be with someone he barely knows. He's wonderful to me. But, he calls me every 10 minutes, always wanting to know if I'm hanging out with Guy A. I don't lie, so I tell them both what's going on.





Help? Please.?Relationship advice.?
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Sex in relationships always relieves stress.


Also he seems to understand you.Relationship advice.?
The best answer i can give you is to seek GOD first and when you let GOD position you for a mate it will be according to his word. If you just read the book of Ruth it will help alot. but remember when GOD has a hand in the plan when your mate finds you there is nothing you will have to compromise.
whoa, stay back from guy B!! he sounds so creepy. How can he act like this after knowing you on Myspace for only a couple of weeks?? Cut it off with him now!!





As for guy A.... well how can he say he doesn't want to rush anything if he already has you in the sack? sounds like a player to me..





I choose Guy C... as in, find someone else!
A you've known him longer.
Neither one. Guy A sounds like he is using you for sex. Sure you have some things in common, but he is using his past as an excuse not to commit. Hes probably been burned by women and doesnt trust them much as far as letting himself be totally free (emotionally as well as physically) with them.





Guy B? You have got to be kidding right? Youve known him for a couple of weeks and it sounds like hes already obsessed. You met him on the internet, how can you be sure that he is who he is? He could be married and just wants to cheat on his wife, or girlfriend. He could be even worse and be one of those predators online. Have you not seen on the news about that ';craigslist killer';?
don't go for the myspace dude. as soon as novelty wears off then he will probably go back to the drinking and smoking - and it might be too late to turn back. (if he has a problem with these sort of things there might be other stuff that could happen - think he could be cheating when out drinking and you will be oblivious to it, sat at home 3hours away not knowing anyone in his town who would tell you) be careful with meeting over the internet as well. i'm guessing you havn't met him so you can't really tell if there's a physical attraction between you both. and 3hours away? come on girl, thats not practical. guy a sounds like a charmer but seriously, if he's ready for sex he should be ready for a relationship. you never know who else he could be doing this to, you know? yes sex is great but it should enhance a relationship, not make it. i'd tell him how you feel. say you love spending time with him but don't understand why a relationship can't happen, if you take it slow. be careful that you don't end up being the girl between relationships, if you know what i mean. he sounds like he likes you, but if he likes you enough he should be jumping at the chance to make you his, as i'm sure most other guys would. most people say they aren't ready for relationships, but would happily go into one if miss perfect came along. if he doesn't respond well then i'd seriously get back out there and look for someone else. and a bit of advice with guy b - words don't always say what they mean. he may say he knows how to treat a woman but does he? and getting inside your head when you don't want him to - that just sounds a little creepy. i hope it all goes well for you anyways. im having a relationship trauma of my own atm :/ good luck!