Relationship advice..................?

i have a descision i can either make or leave how it is. i really could keep this to myself but it helps me to write out my problems and choices. so ive been talking to my oldest and best friend of my whole life, nolan. somehow we get on the topic of who we like and everything. he knows about who i like, janelle and he asks about her and everything. then i say ya we love each other. as soon as i said that it brings up a whole other conversation. he starts saying that she is puttting me too close in her life and im too important to her than i should be. then he says i should break up with her. i say no that would kill her. he says she is insecure and if breaking up with her would kill her then what if someone else better comes along later? what would i do? then he said then if u did break up with her then she would cry her guts out and her parents wouldnt know what to do...well...this has already happened. he couldnt believe this he said she should never cry about our relationship unless we were permanently separated. i agree with that. then he said something that really made me think...i quote ';if you think she can handle the rest of the year without her bawling her head, stop drama with her friends, and get you out of the center of her life, then stay with her,butt if she has any of the above it would be healthy for you and her to split up.'; he says she isnt ready for a relationship...i think she is, but im not all the way sure. idk if you come accross this please leave a comment leaving your opinion on what you think i should do.Relationship advice..................?
i think your friend may be somewhat right. You need to distance yourself a bit from her. Don't get too close too fast. If you are happy with her stay, if not break up.Relationship advice..................?
Wayyyyy to much Drama for me....lol...
When is it a bad thing to be the center of the universe for a girl you care strongly for? I wouldn't break up with her. Tell her somehow she needs to find herself but help her. If you like her don't let her go just because someone tells you to. Don't give into peer pressure!


Personally I wouldn't break up with her if I truly cared for her, and if she cared for me. If you don't like her that much then let her down sooner rather than later when shes even more attached. She will be hurt but she should get over you soon; hopefully.


Your friend sounds like he likes her himself, and it seems to me that he is trying to get you to break up with her so he'll have chance. Don't step aside for his possible selfish wants.





Good Luck.