Relationship advice !?

have you ever been in a long-term relationship where everything seemed as perfect as it could get.. you planned on marrying the person %26amp; spending your life with them.. and then by accident you meet somebody else who changes your feelings toward everything?





who did you choose with be with?





xxoo, thanks.Relationship advice !?
i think you sould have wild sex with me lol.





LOVE youRelationship advice !?
I'd stay with the person I was with.


You know you love the person you're with, and you know your feelings for them haven't faded and you're pretty sure they won't fade [If you're apparently wanting to marry them], but this new person? How do you know that in a few months or years you'll even LIKE them?


Many guys have walked into my life throughout my two year relationship, but I always keep my eyes on him... Why risk something you feel is great, if you don't absolutely HAVE to?

Relationship Advice?

would u rather....





ask ur special some1 out, and then b rejected





or





never ask them out, and live your whole life wondering if they liked u back?





also, why would you pick the one you are picking?





also, the person is in the grade higher than me, and will be going off 2 a different school next year...





so I'd probably never c him/her againRelationship Advice?
might as well ask...youll always question what if...even if that person leaves, you know you tried.

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Relationship advice?

as lame as this may sound I joined plentyoffish.com to try to find a boyfriend since I haven't had much luck going out and meeting people. I ended up talking to this one guy and we ended up exchanging phone numbers and we talk everynight. We really seemed to have hit it off. We have alot in common and can talk for hours. He seems so nice and really sweet. I'm 21 and he's 22. He really wants to meet me. and keeps telling me how much he really likes me and how i always make him smile. But even though he seems like such a nice guy Im still worried. There are alot of crazy people online. but I really do believe hes one of the ';good guys'; but for some reason Im still scared. Im also worried about my family. They would never apporve of me meeting someone online, So I dont know what to do or what to tell them. My brother met his fiance online but if my parents knew that they would flip! Is it normal to be this worried even though I truely think hes really a nice guy? What do I tell my parentsRelationship advice?
Why do you need to tell your parents anything, its not like you're getting married. If you want to meet him just do it in a public place where there are other people around. Also make sure its not somewhere you frequent a lot or near your home or work.Relationship advice?
Have you seen a picture of him? I met a few of my boyfriends online, and the boyfriend that i live with now, i met on Craigslist. I just say be careful.. if your gonna meet, meet in a public area like a Starbucks or something so it is out in the open you know? Dont go to his house or your house or anything.


I say if you like him, then go for it.

Relationship advice?

Hi


i have a bit of a dilema, any advice would be great.





I have been with my guy for 2 years and are to marry next year. I do have feelings for him but im not sure how strong they are lateley. Recently my ex, from a few years ago who remained a friend, told me that he regrets us splitting up. Basically we split because we were too young. He was my first love and my feelings have never vanished, although over the years i pushed them to the back of my head. Now he has said this i just dont know what to do, i have never stopped loving him. since his confession we have spoke and he as said that he has never stopped thinking about me, he regrets the split and would love us to be together. However i dont know how strong his feelings are and if he really does want us to be together.





What should i do?Relationship advice?
you already have your answer so you really dont need us to tell you. You are suppose to marry your soulmate and I really dont think the new guy is. You are still in love with your ex and by marrying the other guy wouldn't be fair to him and I know it will hurt but your talking about a life time hear. You have to listen to your heart, it wont fail you.Relationship advice?
YOu should...remember why you split. He sees you happy, and now wants to confuse you.
It doesn't sound like you are ready for marriage.





But I would takek my finance and get premarriatial counseling first and tell the ex to leave you alone for a while.





But don't marry the guy until you have the counseling. Either way no offense but I hope your finace gets the gal God attends for him instead of just marrying and same with you.
First off, do not get married. You are not ready. If one ever has any doubts about getting married, don't do it. It just hurts everyone in the long run.





Second, heck my feelings for my first love never vanished completely either, but that was 20 years ago. It doesn't mean I'm still in love with him, it just means that as my first love he will always have a special place in my heart.





You need to step back from both of them and take a deep breath. Then decide how you really feel. However, don't expect either to sit there and wait while you make up your mind.
You have already been cheating behind your fiance's back by talking to this other guy about love. So don't think that by getting married to the new guy your feelings for the first guy are going to go away. You are going to end up cheating and that will hurt lots of people.


You need to be firm and strong, weigh in the situation and make a definite decision before the preparations for the wedding start. The new guy might spend lots of money on the arrangements and plan his life around it and then it might be too late to tell him. Better to make your decison right now. But nobody can tell you what that decision should be.

Relationship advice please?

Well Im seventeen and going to be a senior and theres quite the cliche situation going on for me right now.


Ive been dating this guy, Ill call him A for now, for eleven months. Its been great. Hes two years older than me and graduated, Im still in high school. But I kinda have a feeling that hes not going anywhere. Things with him are kind of getting old fast and Im having second thoughts


See, before A there was B... a guy I had a little fling with about a month prior to A. Hes the sweetest thing and hes my age. Weve been talking a lot a lot a lot lately and Im really starting to miss him. Hes made it clear that he misses me as well.


I dont know whether to stick with guy A, since I love him and everything... or try B. Which would be difficult because leaving A could quite possibly be the biggest mistake of my life.


Another issue, theyre friends.


I dont know what to do.


Im in love with A


but falling for B





What do you think I should do????Relationship advice please?
.Dump A and concentrate on B. They say a change is as good as a restRelationship advice please?
heres my advice. dont date someone older than you. your going to run into alot of problems in the future, and if its already getting old, its not going to get anymore exciting. but ask yourself, is it getting old with guy A, or do you just like the attention from guy B more bcuz he's a new guy? anyway, if you go with guy A, your going to get bored of the relationship soon. He's going to be allowed to go to clubs without you bcuz your under age and your going to find yourself getting paranoid about where he is, who he's with, or if he wants someone older than you. so to keep things simple, go with guy B. if you want a real challenge, then go with guy A.

Relationship advice please?

okay so me %26amp; my boyfriend went out a little over a year WE FELL IN LOVE , planned to get married and have kids [no we didn't have sex, but we felt each other and blah blah]. so he had to switch colleges for various reasons and ended up going to a college about 8 hours away from where WE were going. he got a dorm with his 2 best friends and they transferred to his college too. we knew it was going to be hard but we agreed to try our hardest to make it work. the next week we saw each other [august 5] and spent the whole day together, and since then we havent seen each other. he stopped talking to me on august 19 and i sent him 3 texts : why hasnt he talked to me , if hes mad at me for something , and how hurt i am since i love him and he wont talk to me [all on seperate days]. now 2 days ago he sent me an i.m. saying ';hi , why did you mess around with some other guy?'; i responded saying i didnt and i love him now what do i do? get over him and move on? or keep begging for him to talk to me?





oh and about every oher day he im's me and says why did you cheat on me.





i didnt cheat


[rp]Relationship advice please?
Well how about asking or calling him, and asking him why he thinks you have cheated on him? He must have some premise as to why he is accusing you.Relationship advice please?
usually the one accusing of cheating is the one whos in fault...

Relationship advice please!!!?

i split up with my girlfriend a month ago, a few weeks ago itext her asking


how she was and she would reply, then would ring me about how she had been stuck with her homework but by the time id rung her she had figured it out. Then she would accidentally ring me and send a picture of herself to me. i asked if she wanted to meet up, she said no then days later replied saying she was sorry for being blunt, i asked again, saying it was to talk and she could leave if she felt uncomfortable, again 6 hours later was 'i think its best we dont', so i keep asking her why and what the problems why we split in the first place and that for me to move on, i need to know whats wrong, i seriously cant move on feeling like this, without her telling me, shes blanking me and i dont know what to do!!!!!! yes i split with her, but i regret it a lotRelationship advice please!!!?
You need to be totally open and truthful with her otherwise she won't know if you mean it or not.





After ditching me one ex asked me to go back to him 5 times and eventually ditched me for good the 6th time. She is probably really scared if you did the splitting.Relationship advice please!!!?
go n tell her that u love her

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