Relationship advice from men and women please.?

My partner has been spending many many hours online over the last few months until early hours of the morning.I have brought this up and tried to discuss it like adults and he carried on spending many hours online.He did improve, he started coming to bed between 12 and 2am instead of 3am-4am.However I know i shouldnt have done but I read his messages on the computer, I was hoping to put my mind at ease about him flirting with other women online which has been an issue in the past. I found messages between him and another women that were of a sexual nature.One message from this woman said that she was sorry she missed his call.I tackled him about this and he says that he has phoned her about 3 times.I was ready to leave and packed my things to go.I didnt go as we have 2 children aged 3 yrs and a 15 month old and wanted to plan things properly with the least upset to them, I wanted time to sort a house out for me and my two boys.My partner swears that he will not do this again and that it was just abit of fun.He also said that he did it because i have been miserable for two years.I have been very down for the last two years as i lost my mum aged 56yrs two years ago, and my dad aged 54 just one year ago.I aknowledged that i was down and saw a doctor and i am going to take up bereavement councilling.I am confused, should he have supported me for so long over two years or is it understandable that he has done what he has done.He said i never want to sleep with him but this is because i knew about all the online flirting he was doing.One message said i just changed my shirt and shoes so looked like i was fixing the car, i cant help but thing that he has slept with her after that mesage, but he swears that he has never slept with her and she also lives at the other side of the country.I am so confused hurt and angry, so much has happned over the last 2 years i dont know whats acceptable anymore, what to believe.I do know that if i do leave I will be just fine as long as i have my 2 boys and my famiy and friend.Any helpfull advice please.Can things be fixed, should they be fixed or shoul i just enjoy being on my own with my little boysRelationship advice from men and women please.?
For me, i believe it all depends on how apologetic he is for his actions,unfortunately it doesn't sound like he really is. There are no promises for improvement or anything of that nature..which makes me wary that he won't do it again. It can only be fixed if BOTH people make amends not just you. I would suggest couples' therapy since you do have young children together. Good luck and God blessRelationship advice from men and women please.?
He's done it before and he's done it again - personally my opinion is that once can be forgiven, but twice can't.
just enjoy being on your own.


why woul he continue doing this, if there has been trouble before? I don't think he cares.this cannot be good for the children either...


good luck.
he will do it again





trust me
give him a chance to become good hubby
he should have been there to support you after the passing of your parents. if he keeps on flirting with women on the internet, it's just a matter of time before he finds one close enough that an affair will start. since he has no intention of stopping, it would be wise to get your affairs in order and find a new place to live with your family. it sounds like you are a very responsible woman and i know your children will be fine growing up with a mother who really cares for them and loves them. i hope down the road you can find someone who loves you very much and will love your children as well. in the mean time, go out with friends and family. their support will be help full during this time.
This is tough. You need to look inside your heart and figure out what the answer is. You had every right to feel down about the deaths of your parents. He should be there for you rather than on the computer. If he hasn't slept with anyone else, then maybe you can make it work. Tell him that you would like to have sex but it's hard when he's on the computer in the other room. Maybe he will make more of an effort. The point is, an effort needs to be made on both your parts in order for this to work. If he's going to get off the computer, you need to try and be more upbeat and do something fun with him. I know it's hard but relationships take work and in this case you both haven't been giving it your all. If you love him and he loves you, it can work. Try getting a little sexy outfit and surprise him one night. Keeping a relationship's spark is important and you need to try and spice things up a little. Continue the counseling because I feel it will help you personally to deal with your loss. Good luck.
alright darling, you have to calm down


first things first, he totally disrespected you, maybe its tru that you were not acting as happy as you could of, but then that was no excuse to go behind ur back like that!


you say u can be happy as long as your with your boys and family, then go for it! true it will be had for your kids, but its better than them growing up in misery with you two arguing!


you can try to patch things up, thats your choice, but again, your not sure of the whole story, he hasnt come clean about much, since he has ruined your trust, it will be hard giving him that trust again, along with dredding what he might be up to


in my opinion, you should move on, considering you say you can manage it


love means alot, along with trust, and by doing what he did, he doesnt love you as much as he did if he's pissed cuz of no sexual action going on when your in your time of need!


i know it hurts, but be strong for your boys and give them the best! i hope you the best, and in the end its your decision, and i hope you make the right one. you have a question? email me honey, im all ears

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Relationship advice. looong.?

okay. heeeere we go.





i've been best friends with this guy for five years. we've been totally inseparable and we even hang out outside of school. go to movies with other friends, or he'll even come over to my house and we'll hang out just the two of us. he came to my dance recital the past two years, asked me out in 6th grade, told me he like-liked me every year since third grade (haha its cute.) people have told us we are perfect for each other (my best friend even planned our future wedding and we're 13.), you wouldn't believe it. kids in other grades mention it if they see us. some people think we're siblings, twins even.we went to a dance together in sixth grade as a ';couple'; but of course we didnt consider it a bf/gf thing... just an experiment. now, in 7th grade, things got insane.





he insists he likes me, so we've become a little more open about talking about ';us';. so this whole year he's been a little more... say, territorial. i went to a HealthQuest Teen Dance and got asked to dance by 7 guys, and when i mentioned this, he said that was wrong and i shouldn't go back. then he goes along and jokingly flirts with my friends who are also his friends, but still. sometimes its hard to tell if he's joking or not.





in fact, last week, we went to see the new harry potter movie together and he said it should be ';just the two of us';. then he asked me ';would you consider it a date?'; and i said, well, whatever you want. so we get to the mall and he slips me a letter. its summarizing our friendship for the past few years and how he thinks im beautiful and he, quote, ';even though i don't show as much, i really, really, really like you and if this date doesnt feel right for both of us we can just go back to being friends and pretend nothing even happened, i promise. i know that if we play our cards right, this can eventually become a fullblown relationship, and a strong one at that. all you have to do is leap and trust me and i promise you that it will all work out for the best in the end.';





so you see, i'm getting reeeally mixed signals from him and i think i like him but im not sure. after this date, he said we should talk about what comes next, and now (four days later) is avoiding it completely. basically, if he decided to ask me out (after 5 years of feeling like im in love with my best friend) it's come to the point where i dont even know what to say and sometimes i feel like i shouldnt even be friends with him anymore. give me your advice, let me know if anything is unclear, or for additional info. and, might i add, he's not like drop-dead hottt but he's not ugly either. average, and quite tiny, i weigh 102 pounds and he's only 73 and looks it. just for a little image. thank you, its appreciated sooo much. :DRelationship advice. looong.?
He sounds really nice and cute and sweet.


I think he really likes you and is just kind of shy about it. If he wasn't shy about it, he would've just told you himself instead of giving you the note. He probably flirts with your friends to make you jealous.


You should definately go out with him. He sounds really sweet.Relationship advice. looong.?
HES IN LOVE W/ YOU!!! and its TRUE love..the kind that develops ovr many years...go for it, evn if u dont like-like him...u might just fall in love with him
he loves youu :]


giveee it a try.
I have to admit, this is creepy.





Like really creepy.





Super creepy.





But only because I am literally going through the exact same thing.





And really, I completely wish I could help.





But I have no idea what to tell you- I don't even know what to do myself!





Currently, we (Ben and I) are going to try the whole couple thing and I'm terrified, nervous, and excited...





Check out my question for more details: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aqh0lnU_JnKfD_HP96HA9bXsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090727210834AA834z9





Good luck! xoxo

Relationship advice: Do you go to bed at the same time as your spouse?

For 2 years now my girlfriend and I have dated and everything has been fine. We spend every waking moment after work together, and around 11pm she would head to her house and go to bed. I would head to my house and play video games/watch TV until about 2 am.





She typically likes at least 8 hours of sleep a night, I prefer only 5 or 6.





Now we've since bought a house together and everything has been fine for the first couple of days (I went to bed at the same time as her for the first 2 nights, the next 2 nights I stayed up playing computer and then came to bed).





On night 5 she got angry that I wasn't going to go to bed with her, despite her saying (before we bought a house together) that she'd have no problem with me staying up as long as it wasn't every night.





Anyways, I don't see a reason for flipping out and being angry if someone won't go to bed at the same time.





It's not a lack of cuddling, I do that all day with her, and it's not a lack of sex, we have that as well.Relationship advice: Do you go to bed at the same time as your spouse?
Sounds like she needs to get over it~!


Watch Scrubs they had a deal like that!





Maybe she feels that she is missing out on fun! and who likes to miss out on the fun stuff!





Talk to her and ask her why she cares so much maybe there is something your not seeing! at the same time exsplain how you feel and why you stay up!





also if she really wants to go to bed at the same time ask her to go to bed at your bed time!





talk it out work it out work as a team! give and take! and good luck!





My partner and I go to bed at the same time! 90% of the time! 7% of the time i pass out on the couch...


the other 3% he might have friends over and id on't want to pass out on them while they are having fun!


so i just go to bed!





personally i think it's a very minor thing to argue about!


but it might mean something to her! so find out!Relationship advice: Do you go to bed at the same time as your spouse?
Its a comfort thing. And like someone else said, it may also be a little bit of jealousy. She thinks you prefer the games over her. How about you meet in the middle and offer to tuck her in or lay down with her until she falls asleep and then get back up and play? Or better yet, get her addicted to your games too so you're both up all night? =]
Sometimes we do, sometimes we don't. I really don't see her logic. Maybe she is uneasy going to bed in the house by herself. A little afraid maybe. Don't sweat it. Just explain that you don't expect her to stay up with you so why should she expect you to go to bed with her. Everything will go to normal eventually. It is still new to her. Maybe just humor her a bit. But still stand your ground a little. Remember, compromise.
Well, my hubby will not go to bed with out me. It use to kinda annoy me but now I think it is sweet. We always go together.


Now it is just habit. I can see your point, that it shouldn't matter but if it matters and is important to her maybe you can work out a compromise..............................
She is jealous of the games and computer! Sometimes it is nice to fall alseep next to someone as well. Never let a girl tell you she will be fine with it that is lie number 1.
Remind her she is not your mother and can't tell you what time to go to bed, i see some control issues here so you better nip it in the bud now!!
she wants to controll you, and is pissed you haven't fallen in line. this happens when people start living together. Stuff canges, and it isn't always for the better. Good luck, and hope she stops.
me and my husband go to bed at the same time...out of habit and because we are both tired
damn, u moved in 2gether, dis is where it does downhill
Hmm some times we do, sometimes we dont, but even when we do my body naturally stays up longer, so I'll stay in bed watching a show or something and he'll be snoring ';loudly'; beside me. If she's all about going to bed together put a tv in the room and watch a show or something that way she's good and your not sitting there staring at the ceiling. But don't bow down often if you wanna stay awake and play on the computer or video games go right ahead. YOU LIVE ONE LIFE DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO.
I try to alternate, with one night bed with my girl, one night watching DVDs. But she moans when I stay up; and I hate it when I have to lie there in bed and I can't sleep, and I could be doing other things.





So: tell her that you are writing a novel, and that she can only read it when you have finished; and tell her that the midnight hours are your most creative time for thinking about it. Keep a messy looking notebook next to your computer chair, and if she chastises you about playing games, drinking, not going to bed etc, then have a go back and tell her that she is selfishly disrupting your natural thinking rhythms and such like - then hope for the best. I tried this and it didn't work, but it was the best that I could come up with, and maybe it could work for you.
She likes your company. I think that is all she is saying but it seems like you guys are spending plenty of time together.





My husband and I go to bed together but lately he's been reading for a few minutes and I just go to sleep. I need more sleep than my husband.





One option is that if you can do what you want beside her in bed while she sleeps? The light doesn't bother me.





Or just tell her that you're not ready for bed. She can stay up with you. Compromise. Or accept. It's unfair of her to try to cramp your style. If you want to stay up then it's your choice. You're an adult. But I think she just likes the security of having you there. :-)

Relationship advice please!!!!!?

Ok so I have this friend. His name is Dave. We talk all the time and last night he told me that he liked me, that I was beautiful, that he didn't know why he didn't tell me sooner, and that he can't wait to see me again. I really like him too. He's not real cute, but his personality is just... amazing. And my friend gave me the advice to look beyond his appearance.





There's only one problem... he's in the air force. I've never had a long distance relationship work out, should we give it a try? I know it'll be hard, but is it worth it? He can come home this weekend, and plans to, but I don't know how we would make a long distance relationship work out.





Any advice on this matter?Relationship advice please!!!!!?
Honestly...it's hard....and if his ';personality'; is the only thing you like then I would watch out. It sounds weird but you do need to be attracted to him too amongst other things...for instance, what is he doing after the military? What other things do you love about him? You'll have to know these questions to be able to support a long distance relationship.





Plus, you said, ';I've never had a long distance relationship work out';...maybe there is your first clue that it's a tough road.





Maybe you two could start off slow, write, talk and see where it goes but I would not take this weekend and make a decision on if you are going to be exclusive with the guy.





Good luck!Relationship advice please!!!!!?
well i understand you, because i am also dating my best guy friend and he is not the cutes guy out there but to me he is just great, and he is a truck driver so is also kinda of a long distance relationship type of thing, the only thing i can tell you is that if you really like him it would work out, don't stress it because f that just relax and talk to him as much as you can
This sounds like a spur of the moment thing for the both of you. You are both enraptured by each other because of the obstacles you will face. It's like Romeo and Juliet. The more obstacles you face, the stronger the appeal. You can try it out, but both of you must be prepared to work for the relationship. It will take a strong dedication from the both of you.
It's worth a try. If he has a great personality and you feel for him, then give it a try. With phone calls, email, texts, etc, you will be able to stay in touch and communicate - maybe visit occasionally. Long distance relationships can and do work out - my husband and I dated for 7 yrs before we married and were only in the same city for 4 months of that...
You will just have to live and see where it takes you. The relationship can flourish if you have a strong connection (and if you aren't too young). But as far as looks go I agree with your friend. I have had some really great boyfriends and it was all because I didn't care about the outside I respected and loved what was on the inside. Just see where it goes, if it works it works if it doesn't than it wasn't meant to be.
first of all, his personality is what matters the most, so if he isn't as gorgeous as the men in the magazines,don't freak. i guess you could give it a go, but if something goes wrong, make sure he stays your friend because he sounds like a really great guy.
Looks, in the long run, do not matter. Personality is way more important. You will never know if you don;t give it a try, and you would hate to look back one day and wonder what if? Go for it. If you both really like each other, it can work.
i would give it a shot. if it doesnt work, it doesnt work. at least you wont live with that WHAT IF feeling. right? thats how i look at it. just make sure you both agree no matter what happens you guys will still be friends in the end. and you guys are good. dont end the relationship on bad terms.





thats just my opinion. i would definately go for it. he seems like a sweet guy so do it!! :)
My husband and I started out that way until I figured out how to move. For the right person, it can be done. But it's hard, and until we had pretty definite plans to eventually make it no-distance, it seemed like it wasn't going to work.
Just think of it this way. If you dont give it a shot then you will never know how it can and might work out. It sounds as if you really like him, and looks definately are not everything. I would give it a try, whats too lose. Long distance relationships can work. Trust me!
Well i think that you should try it out. But if it gets to be to much then just tell him calmly that you don't really like the idea of a ';long distance relationship.'; That's all I'm sure he'll understand.
you never know unless you try. and you yourself said it was worth it. maybe this time it will work if you don't try, you will always wonder ';what if'; and regret it.
Take it one day at a time and don't try to solve everything at once. You know there is an attraction now take it one step at a time and see what happens. Relationships will last if you both make them.
if you really like him you should at least give it a shot. move slowly and be honest though. that way if the long distance thing is too hard you can call it and still maintain your friendship.
I did it and at the end married the guy. Im not saying u should marry him, but if u guys really like each other, i would advise to give it a try. It will be hard, but if I could make it work, anyone can :) GL
The more important issue here is if you like him or not. If you do, why don't you give it a try? Otherwise, you don't need to make a big deal out of it.
Long distance relationships can work. It all depends on how much you want it to work. I say give it a try. You never know he could be the right guy. Good luck!
you should give it a try if it doesnt seem to work out later down the road then yall can just be frans again
i would write to him and keep in touch to show that you care and when he gets home go out and do something



Go for it ;)
don't do it
when you see him this weekend, ask him this question
Don't knock it til you tried it.
give it a try nothing else could go wrong
Ohh dear, honestly the long distane thing really doesnt work out.


I wouldnt get stuck in that.


Get out ASAP.



I'd say go for it....this Guy I like Lives 300 Miles away but we are making plans to be together this October....





If you like him, then my vote is give it a try....You never know
if you really like him then i guess, go for it! You'll always miss 100% of the shot if you never try.
I know it's hard but don't make a commitment to him you can't make, and he shouldn't do the same. Truth is if he's in the air force you barely gonna see him. It's better to let him go now cause it will be so hard if you lose him. Your going to be home, meeting new people, and he might hold you back in experiencing things at home cause of the stress of the relationship. Just tell him you care about him but right now is not the best time to start something. Just move on and tell him when he gets home to give you a call when he has time for a relationship. It may be hard but it will be harder if you fall in the trap.
My bro actually met his long term gf on the internet. They have talked over the internet for over a year and the sad thing is they have never met (person to person). Ya i know weird! but when they finally met they had this special connection that seemed almost sickening (for me cause i haven't found that special girl yet). Any ways, she lived 12 hours away from my bro and they ended up like soul mates. Well you are going to have to answer this question... Do you think you can handle a long distance relationship? and if your iffy about it, you should tell him right away cause guys don't like girls who play with their minds. I hope all goes well.
I think the only way any long distance relationship will work is if you two will EVENTUALLY live in the same place. I don't know how old you are but I assume you're still in school, I can't really say if it will be ';worth it'; in the end, but if you really like this guy it is worth a shot. I would just try to have fun when you see him and keep things lite, don't rush into anything til you know how you really feel about the situation. It would suck for you to tie yourself down before you're ready, especially if you wont get to see him regularly. Hope this helps.

Relationship Advice Please!?

Ok sooo... My partner and I will finish our degrees soonish. He had to be in the city for his and I could have done mine in my home town but I decided to give the city a go. I grew up in a chilled out beachy town so that's what I'm used to and thats where I have always wanted to settle down.


Problem is my partner's career is going to be in the city, we've kind of discussed it but he has given me the impression that he would be able to take it to more regional areas but he wont... I am pretty sure he will only be able to find work in the city. With my job I can go either way.





I don't know what we can do, I don't know how we could find a compromise. I don't want to be too selfish but I don't want to live somewhere that I really don't enjoy at all.





I don't expect any mirace fixes, just any idea's/experienced,, serious answers only please.Relationship Advice Please!?
the partner that has the most earning potential usually dictates the location of the main home...





weekend property can always be close to a beach or waterfront...

Relationship advice. Please.?

Here goes,


Me and this guy were best friends back in highschool ( we both had feelings for each other, but none of us were smart enough to reveal it).


Then he left the country, and I started dating someone( i'm still dating him, it's been 2 n half years).


However, i've ALWAYS kept in touch with my old best friend. N recently we talked about our past feelings for each other (I havent seen him in 3 years, but we keep in touchh, i call him all the time). I'm gona be seeing him this summer for the first time.


We were both SO excited to see each other after so long! but i feel like he keeps avoiding me.


He's sending VERY mixed signals. When i msg him, he RARELY replies, i send him online messages that he doesnt reply to n stuff like that. Yet when i call, n he picks up, he's SO happy to talk to me, and we have the best conversationsss! I duno wats happening..


is he keeping a distance cuz i'm in a relationship?


or has he changed in the past 3 years?


I duno wat to think.. and i cant talk to him about it, cuz i've done it a million times and he always says ( nothing;s wrong, i've just been busy) ukh!


I'm thinking of not txting, calling , or talking to him at all for the next month ( untill i go back n see him), then i'll just tell him ( hey, i'm here, wana meet up?)





wat do you guys thinkk?Relationship advice. Please.?
I think he is keeping a distance and people do change in time. Give him space and time to tell you what's on his mind.





P.S. If you txting, and sending other guy messages and so excited about seeing him maybe you need to think about the relationship you have now and why you excited about a other guy.Relationship advice. Please.?
He's staying distance because he is in a relationship. He probably does not want to tell you to see where his chance are with you. Take it for what it is, friends. I have a theory, unless a man has put a ring on my finger and we are in front of the preacher. Everything they say and do is mostly bullcrap.
I wld just wait till you see him. maybe he has changed and if you guys get together and hang out you will know if he has.





and maybe he jst duznt have feelings but duznt want to be mean :( guys do that.





or it cld be that you are in a relationship and he duznt want to get involved or duznt think that u want to get involved
what is your relationship with your bf now now do you want to hurt him is the question. remain as his friend as before and until you know the true person he is either made for you or just being lustfull.
I think its becus youre in a relationship with someone and he doesnt want to be all over you. you should text him so you guys can meet up and when you do maybe thats when you麓ll know if maybe he still likes you.
I think you must have ignored him in the Past that's Why he's ignoring you Now. Look in your past history and See anything you have done wrong.
maybe he is avoiding yu maybe he doesnt like yu but in the other hand


maybe he does and really wants to be away cuz of yur boyfriend


maybe his trynna stop liking yu cuz yu in a relation
Is finding out worth the relationship that you've been in for the past 2 years? Somethings are better left unknown.
I think u should ask him if he has a gf, cuz if she's really controlling, then he might need to b careful! Act like old times!
I know you are in a relationship but you guys need to sleep together and get it out of your system.
I don't think, I know. He finds you interesting, but is not interested.





Move on.
You suck as a person.
well u never know he might be busy. but i think u should let him email u or w.e first.
i get the impression that you are more into it than he is, he might wanna get together when he's in the area and if you guys have myspace or facebook maybe talk a tiny bit but if it's been that long i don't see why you're putting soo much effort into it, seems like you aren't satisfied with who you are with, if that's the case, you should be more concerned with ending your current relationship before moving on. he sounds like a typical guy, he probably meets women now and you're just the good friend who he might wanna meet up with later. he's not going to drop his current plans for you but if you talk to him of course he's going to be nice. take things slower is my guess
Wow. Well your boyfriend, i'm guessing does not know about this whole ordeal. I would tell your boyfriend that you are going to see him and it sounds like you are keeping this all from your boyfriend or atleast the part about having feelings for this other guy, and still thinking you may still have feelings. Some guys like to talk on the phone more than through emails and online messaging. It just has to do with your personality, so do not worry about that issue. When you go see this other guy and you guys talk, and you seem to still have chemistry i would either leave your boyfriend or drop the whole ordeal with the other guy. You will get into much drama if you keep them both in your life if you have feelings for both of them. Do not ignore the other guy because there really is no point in doing so. I hope everything works out ok for you. Good luck.
he might be keeping his distance especially if its online because people can see that and maybe he doesn't want your boyfriend getting the wrong idea that you're cheating or something. I think he still likes you but the dynamics obviously have changed in that your in a relationship. He probably also wants to talk to you since thats much more personal than just typing or maybe he's just bad at responding online like I am. Don't just ignore him, but maybe don't call so much or if anything try not to be the one who initiates contact to see if he is really paying attention.
I think you should hang on to him. Trust him maybe he really was veri busi you said that he sound happy wen u talk to him on the phone so he is in my oppinion !! I would wait till the next few days when u meet him u can judge weather he has changed or not !!!

Relationship advice from those who are experienced?

My girlfriend and me have been dating for 2 years, living together for six months. She said she is confused about her feelings and


feels that we have become too comfortable with each other. She says we need to spend more time apart and with out friends (find this strange because she only has one friend)





She said she misses times when I have been gone and then


come home to her and vice versa.





How should I handle this? I will definitely give her some space, since we both need it. Should I see


this as a sign we are through? When I am around her it feels so awkward, like she wont even kiss me. She said she loves me and I am a big part of her life?





Should I even text her/ give her any attention during the day, or just try to ignore her so she craves the attention?Relationship advice from those who are experienced?
that is odd.. have her talk to you and see what she wants to happenRelationship advice from those who are experienced?
I wouldn't take it as you guys are over just yet. Some people change after you move in with them, that is just the way things are. You know some people who live apart like the thrill of getting ready to see that special someone and like missing them in a way when they have to go home and then when you move in with each other the excitement of that part of the relationship is over and you miss it. Or some people just don't like being crowded. Like my sister and her husband are around each other all the time and they love it. But my mom and my dad hardly ever see each other but they are perfectly happy with each other when they do. So I would just give her her space. When she is out act like you would have if she was out before you two lived together.
Be spontaneous, that's the best way to keep a spark in a boring relationship.
I think it's a sign it may be ending. Sit her down and have an honest discussion about what's happening. If she won't be honest then maybe that will tell you something to.
I am confused..lol Aren't you suppose to feel completely comfortable with your partner? Why would that make her want to spend time away? I would talk to her and ask her what is really going on..
I would say still text her and giver her attention just dont be suffocating about it. In every relationship people need/want to have their own space and time for themselves. Everything is fine with you as a couple. Its just spending everyday together and being together for so long can be somewhat suffocating on your relationship. Just plan to go out with your buddies one night and her go out with her girl(s).
Ignoring her will push her further away.





You need to talk to her about what she's thinking. We can't answer this kind of question.





You are not necessarily through. She might just want some space to breathe.





Talk to her about what she wants. Ask her straight out if she says anything that sounds like it means things are over. You need to know.
That's a hard one ...I'm 28 nd have had my share of different relationships some long some short...longest 5-6years...





When she says to comfortable..she probably means that u guys are in a rut...Let her know ur there bt give her space...





Not to much..don't give her room to think about being sneaky...





Have you tried roe playing...no sexually...more mental...when my car broke and Id take the bus my ex would get on two stops before or after meet, wait 5 minutes and then slow work his way to me and ';hit on me';





At first it was awkward...but later fun (it funny watchin' others watchin you gettin picked up)
Sounds to me like you're stuck in a rutt. Give each other some space and see where it goes. And if you miss each other than you know the answer.





So give her the space and see if she comes back and wants to be with you, this could be kind of like a break to see where you guys are headed.
Sounds like she is the problem. If she is not interested then it may be the end. Its not like you guys are married. Also, studies show that couples who live together before marriage have the highest divorce rates after marriage. Just something to think about. Plus try some of the other answers on here.
A couple generally shouldn't be joined at the hip: it is good to have different experiences to talk about with each other. If you only do the same things and always together, before long, you run out of new things to talk about. This isn't to say, ';Ignore her';, but, encourage her to develop her own interests. Maybe there's a class she'd like to take? Cooking? Martial arts? Drawing? Or she gets to go spend a day shopping, or on a tour. The same goes for you. Do things together, yes; but also keep your own identities and share the experiences you have when apart.
She needs to learn that when you move in with your bf/gf, that things will become boring, repetitive, and monotonous. Every day of the relationship will not be a prom night. If she can't learn to be bored with you and still enjoy your company, then perhaps she's not the one for you.
well ur in a weird situation, i mean how can she want space if ur living together??


but just give her some space tho, and don't give her that much attention..so she would actually miss you and want to c u..
uh oh, red flag. If you feel awkward with her you might want to take a step back and review your relationship. Are you in it because you love her more than anything and you could not picture being with anyone else... or just to have a gf. It is the little things that mean the most... like my ex wouldn't kiss me unless i initiated it or hug me... little things like that are huge. Space is good.. you don't want to be around each other all the time. Don't over think the situation though... if you feel like talking to her during the day, give her a call. If not then w/e.... don't worry about what she is thinking so much, if she wants to talk she will call ya. You gotta see this from her view.





This does sound like the situation between me and my ex I hate to say. You feel like she doesn't love you, but she re assures she does. Honestly I don't want to be with someone that I am going to question almost everyday if they love me.... get it. Just think about it.... it broke my heart to give her up, but in the end it was right. Give it a couple of weeks and most importantly talk to her about it. If she is giving you blunt answers then you need to consider what I have said. Good luck bro.

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